Program to educate parents, students about ‘sexting’

Published 6:21 pm Sunday, July 10, 2011

Kelly Connell and Sorah Stein will be hosting a two-night community education program  from 6:30 to 9:30 p.m. Wednesday, July 20 and Thursday July 21 at the Four Flags Area Chamber of Commerce.

The first session is for parents and guardians, while the second is student-oriented.

Connell is a sexuality educator and consultant of Kelly Connell Consulting. Stein is a behavior analyst and owner of Partnership for Behavior Change.

These women will be leading a community education program to discuss adolescent sexuality, sexual coercion, bullying, harassment and “sexting.” They will also discuss the laws and policies concerning these behaviors.

“We’ve wanted to do a program in Niles for awhile,” Connell said. “We have been following the recent sex video case and were appalled at the entire scenario. We wanted to use that case as a teaching opportunity and educate students about their sexuality.”

The programs will address the impact of peer pressure on individuals of any sexual orientation. The peer pressure stems from behaviors deemed acceptable and expected by television, movies, magazines and music.

Although there are some examples of each medium that provide a counter message of self-confidence and empowerment, the majority of products insist on how the public should think, act, look and be.

Connell and Stein will also be discussing the recently amended laws regarding sexting and sex offenders.

“The kids don’t know what we mean when we say ‘sexual coercion’ and things like that,” Connell said. “We will teach them what each term means and what do to about it. They need to understand the legal side of things as well. They have to know what they are getting themselves into.”

Connell assures that she is not advocating abstinence or promiscuity. Her goal is to inform the students so they will be able to make educated decisions about their safety by protecting themselves and their partners.

“We present factual information, start a dialogue and answer questions,” Connell said. “People are free to create their own value system when they leave.”

There will be a $5 per person or $8 per parenting couple admission fee for the event July 20 and a $3 per person entrance fee July 21. Students who attend the program July 21 must present parental permission slips.

Funds raised through the event will cover the room rental fee and refreshments. Any money leftover will be donated to Sexual Assault Services.

“Kids think in the here and now. If you want to be president someday, don’t be sending naked pictures,” Connell said.

For more information, call or e-mail Kelly Connell at 684-0782 or connell.kelly@gmail.com.